差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解)
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差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解)

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差一點就差很多的親子溝通術(全圖解): 14. 82132 YES NG

作者: 童童老師


──完整圖解親子溝通,修復家庭關係──
今天的你又忍不住大吼了嗎?
每天立志要當優雅雙親的你,
把「溫和而堅定」貼在牆上的你,
在崩潰前還在默念「不生氣心經」的你,
在面對小孩聽不懂、講不通、秒崩潰的每個當下,
你是戰──失聲大吼;
還是逃—─假裝事情沒發生過,關係卻已經出現裂痕;
或總在事發當下僵住,不知如何反應。
我們都想好好說話,但面對孩子各種失序暴走,
有沒有更好的方法,讓我們有機會聽進彼此的話?
 
【隨書附贈】親子溝通練習簿
.完整溝通練習題,讓孩子也能和大人一起學習如何表達。
.附贈給大人的實用小撇步,親子一起複習愛的說話術。
(規格14.8×21公分,32頁)
 
  【關於溝通,我們都弄錯的事】
  • 你的溝通,是為了讓孩子聽話,還是讓孩子聽得進去你說的話?
  • 為什麼好聲好氣說話,但開口後衝突卻反而擴大?
  • 到底是誰說用愛的教育,孩子就能自動被感化?
 
  溝通需要準備,也需要技巧,童童老師從腦科學、心理學、神經科學,整理出「讓你好好說,孩子好好聽」的五大溝通技巧,有練有保庇。
 
  • 給予選擇權──小孩才做選擇?YES!正確提供選擇權,讓你們一起找到前往目標的路徑。
  • 轉換肯定句──把「你不可以!」換成「請你這樣」。
  • 同理──學習刻意練習同理,接住孩子情緒。
  • 擴充彈性──從練習同理─堅持規則─提供替代選項中,讓孩子增加調節能力。
  • 順應邏輯──換個角度再來一次,找出解決方法,才能打開溝通死結。
 
  ──那些年,雙親必踩的地雷話術,你中了幾個?──
  ✔你這是什麼態度?
  ✔再五分鐘喔!
  ✔沒寫完就不能玩玩具!
  ✔你可以專心一點嗎!
  ✔你就不能學姊姊嗎? 
  ✔這麼簡單你都不會!
  避開NG語法,換個句型再來一次,每天一點點調整,就能帶來不同結果。
 
  即使努力溝通,但我們也知道不會馬上解決問題,親子溝通是每天每天的修行,所以需要每天每天的複習,因為我們想給孩子很多很多的愛,所以花很多很多的力氣,和孩子一起成長。
 
作者
 
童童老師
 
  本名童雋哲,畢業於中山醫學大學職能治療學系、台灣大學腦與心智科學研究所,現任幼思職能治療所負責人。
 
  專長為神經科學、感覺統合、兒童發展、職能治療與評估、教養諮詢、兒童情緒調節與訓練、亞斯伯格特質兒童人際訓練、過動與注意力不足之評估與治療。
 
  在協助過許多家庭後,開設臉書粉絲專頁「童童老師的孩子這樣說」,以簡易的圖文說明複雜的腦科學、心理學、神經科學等,讓更多父母能理解孩子的行為、情緒。提供確切有效的方式,讓父母能以適當的方式輔助,解決孩子的各種疑難雜症,因此廣受父母好評。
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